Oh. My. Word. I had such a senior moment today that I can hardly believe myself! I had spent the day baking and decorating sheet cakes for our church. (We are celebrating Pastor Appreciation Month this coming Sunday), baking muffins for an all day meeting tomorrow, and banana breads to just have on hand.
My husband and I were sitting and waiting for our after dinner tea to be done heating in the microwave and smelling the wonderful smell of banana bread baking in the oven when the buzzer sounded. I leapt out of my chair and went to take the bread out, opened the oven and thought, “What in the world is wrong with the banana bread?”
I made the mistake of voicing this thought out loud in front of my husband. His first question was wondering (also aloud) if I had forgotten a certain ingredient. He began naming ingredients (some that don’t even go in banana bread). I told him that I had remembered ALL the ingredients and that forgetting one would not make the bread “goopy and undone-looking”.
As I was standing there looking at the breads that were just sitting there looking goopy while they sat in their loaf pans in my oven , it occurred to me that the timer buzzing might, just might have been the microwave for the tea. It was a light bulb coming on kind of moment! (I wonder if it used to be a candle-lighting moment before there was electricity?)
I am pretty sure that my husband sometimes really wonders about the state of my brain. He is probably very sure that at times someone has snuffed most, if not all of the candles out that were supposed to be lighting all those deep dark areas. Hopefully he just thinks that I do it to keep him on his toes.
I remember going to a conference where the speaker was a woman. She had a solution for some of these less than stellar moments….always keep a can of corn on the step. That way if you go up or downstairs for something, forget what that something was and don’t want to admit to that fact….you can always carry the can of corn along with you and look like you really do know what you are doing.
Unfortunately I think that strategy requires not wondering aloud what is wrong with the banana bread. My theory is that we can only hold so much information in our brains and then we need to kick some tidbit of information out to make room for more. I am pretty sure that is the only way multi-tasking works.
Sometimes our lives just get too busy to keep everything straight and we mess up. When these oops moments happen we have two choices….we can see the humor in it or we can beat ourselves up for doing something wrong. On this one, I am choosing humor. If you are like me, in the past, you have spent too much time picking the other choice.
Life really is too short to spend in second-guessing yourself so take a deep breath, realize that some things are not a life altering moment and go light a candle to brighten the darkness. Who knows…..you may even brighten the day for those around you and sharing your experiences might make life easier for someone else.
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Glad to read I’m not alone! Ha! Love the part about saying things aloud to make room for more! I’ve found myself wondering WHY I’ve been doing that lately! 🙂
I’m with you. Humor is a good choice. The other is, well, not much fun. Great post.
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Thank you so much! It would be so much better if my husband did not hear me talking to myself :)…….but after 36 years he should be used to it!
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Ha ha. Yes, I bet so! 🙂
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LOL!! I’m with you! Laugh and go on. I loved your photos — first one with unlit candles and the last one sparkling. I liked your orange teapot, too. I’ll bet you have several.
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I do have several teapots! This is one our kids gave us…..they did not like us using a quart canning jar in the microwave for tea LOL….our son thought it looked like a spittoon (due to the staining from tea)!
My favorite teapot is one that my Grandma had. It has a few chips but, oh so many memories.
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I can visualize that ooey gooey banana bread! You surely would never forget the ingredients, would you? Last year I made two pecan pies for the teachers at school. The pies just did not “come together” correctly. I did not know what was wrong, but I tasted one and it was very sweet and sort of weirdly tasty. I put out plastic bowls and spoons beside the pies. Later, a teacher came by my room and said: “Everybody loves the pecan pie pudding. We want the recipe!”…I said ok and didn’t tell her that something was wrong. I thought that my oven had gone haywire! On the way home, I realized that I had not included the eggs! I had to admit my error to the other teachers! So disturbed! This post on candles is excellent! Loved it! I hope that your church celebration is a happy and fulfilling event!
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I love your pecan pie story. My banana bread did finish baking but some of them did fall in the center because I had the oven door open too long while I was having my moment. They still taste good, so that is a plus! They just do not look pretty enough to give away.
Our church serves coffee, juice and cake for special things….somewhere along the line I have become the church cake baker. It is a nice little extra job :).
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What a nice title…church cake baker!! I would enjoy making cakes for church get-togethers! I think your cake baking skills are far superior to mine! After all…you made the wedding cakes and cupcakes!! Mine would be a mess and a half!!!
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my kids would say practice, practice, practice :). I used to really worry every time I made them. Not so much anymore.
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Outstanding post. I love the way you weave humor. The can of corn is great. Happens more often than I want to admit.
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Thank you so much!
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Hi granny 🙂 my mouth is watering i want that piece of cake yummmyyy…
Had a great time reading 🙂 different style eh …
Regards
Advaita.
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I will do that and thank you so much for stopping by.
I have to wait for Sunday to taste the cake. For now they are just sitting in containers waiting for the celebration.
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Thank U so much 🙂
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I worked out, a few weeks ago, what it was which was causing these brain fails. Sadly, with the passing of time, I’ve forgotten what it is which I worked out was causing these brain fails.
[sigh] .… and round and round the merry-go-round goes.
sending oodles of squidges and lots of love to … er … who are you again? lol
<3Chicken<3 – like I could EVER forget you, my wonderful bogging pal! ~ Cobs. x
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LOL my sister in law used to say it was having that third child. I do know once I had that third one I would run through all three names to get to the right kid…….
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For a long time I didn’t believe my husband and sons that I actually have conversations with myself. Then, early one morning I actually heard myself doing it and the really embarrassing thing was I was darned near getting into an argument with myself over what I (we?) should get done first. Thanks for sharing your self-talk moment. I feel much better about mine. And so do I.
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Look on the bright side…..we will never get lonely :). My husband also talks to himself so he just laughs when I do that.
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LOL … I’ve called Mr. Cobs both of my daughters names, called my daughters each others names, and called the dog all the names under the sun until I hit her name. I swear that my brain is asleep 50% of the time I look like I’m awake, and only asleep half the time that I look like I’m asleep … because when I wake up, I recall the most ridiculous, vivid dreams.
I’ve put in a request for a Heavenly technician to visit while I’m asleep and actually sort the wiring out. I think there’s an electrical … electrical …. electrical … f.f.f.f.f.f.f..ffault.
lol ❤ love ❤ ~ C. x
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Well….look on the bright side….you at least look like you are awake while having your brain asleep. That is probably a gift because some of the time there isn’t anything worthwhile happening anyway :).
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Actually laughing here.
Do you know … I think you’re right. LOL
C x
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Such a great post! That is definitely something I would have done, and my my love and I would sit and laugh about it later 🙂 Beautiful photos too! Your home must always smell so heavenly, sigh 🙂 Enjoy your Pastor appreciation celebration!
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The house did smell great! My husband came in from the field and was sniffing and asking if he could have some before he even knew what it was :).
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We are do these things. There is simply so much in a person’s brain as they get older – we have to search harder to find the info we want. Ha I like the can of corn story, but coming out of the bedroom or bathroom with that corn would not work. Ha You were smelling that good banana bread and it was on your mind.
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It could be I just whiffed up too much flour????
Maybe I will have to leave corn and shampoo at various locations?
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If you keep laughing at yourself – we all know you are ok. You are just having sometimers moments. LOL
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Just found your blog and love your posts! I too forget things in my cooking sometimes. Made plenty of ooops in my life time and I too talk to myself! So does my hubby and we call out “what” to one another. I keep telling myself not to respond but than habits are hard to break. Humor sure turns a lemon into lemonade. If we can laugh at ourselves life is easier!
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I am so glad you stopped by! Humor definitely makes life easier and a lot more fun. I am going to have to head over check out the babytrend :).
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I thought you were going to say you hadn’t turned the oven on!
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That was still on from baking the muffins and 5 sheet cakes earlier. If not for that it could be a definite possibility!
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OMG!! This is a daily occurrence for me! With the can of corn, I’d grab it then walk into the kitchen and wonder what I was planning on making with it…LOL!! Your bread looks delicious and not goopy at all…and your settings are so festive looking too! I have the same belief, that the brain can only hold so much information and it decides what’s important to retain and what isn’t. Yes we must definitely laugh rather than the alternative! xo
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The bread turned out fine…..when I looked at it, it still had 30 minutes to bake LOL. 1/2 of the loaves did sink in the middle because I stood there to long talking to the bread and myself with the oven door open…..it does still taste great even though they look a little sad.
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That is too funny!!😃
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I will be employing the can of corn stratagem myself – genius bit of advice! You aren’t alone. I have made coffee with gravy granules before now and (on more than one occasion) made a meal (the kind you just put on a plate, not the kind you take in dishes to the table) and then immediately opened the bin and thrown it away!
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LOL You have made my day :). I have forgotten the coffee totally in the coffee pot. I told my husband who is the coffee drinker I was just trying to cut down on his caffeine intake. I don’t think he believed me……
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But he can never prove it!
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If it makes you feel better, I did a really big booboo on Saturday. My daughter has saved her money for months to buy an American Girl doll, so last weekend I took her to the American Girl store. I had to stop and get gas in the car first. We drove all the way to the store (which is a drive in LA traffic), and walked around the store looking at everything for a few hours. I was standing at the register helping her pay for what she picked out when I realized I left my credit card in the car. After I paid for the gas, I had put it in the cup holder instead of my purse, and for 2 or 3 hours, anyone could have walked right up to my car and been able to steal my credit card number. I don’t know what I was thinking.
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LOL. I am so glad your stuff was still there. Doesn’t that make you feel a little better about people?
And did you panic when you thought about it later? (I probably would!)
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Oh yes, I was definitely in panic mode! But so far I haven’t received any calls from the credit card company about fraudulent activity, so I’m breathing a little easier. 🙂
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